Improve Your Health And Your Home With Better Indoor Air Quality

Is your home making you sick? Many people don’t even realize that the headaches and allergies that they are experiencing could be due to the pollutants inside their home. There are a number of ways that we can eliminate the dangerous air pollutants in our home to make indoor air quality much better. Some of the ways are very simple and cost very little while other ways are more expensive and can take more resources. All of the tips I’m going to give you will help you and your family breath easier and be a little healthier.

A number of years ago I was working in the construction industry building new homes and I wanted to learn more about building green. One of the components of building green is building a home that is safe to live in. Now, you might be thinking to yourself “Aren’t all homes ‘safe’ to live in?” and I would respond with “No, actually not all homes are ‘safe’ to live in due to the poor indoor air quality.” There are many things that you should consider in order to make the indoor air quality better for yourself and your family.

One area of your home that could be making you sick is your heating and cooling system aka HVAC system. If the air filter has not been changed in a while or the venting system has not been cleaned in a while it may be time to get those items checked out. If you’re buying a home I recommend having the venting system and air filter changed right when you get into the home. This way you know for sure that it’s been recently cleaned and that it will not be blowing dusty air throughout your home. For cleaning your vents, also known as ducting, you can call a local HVAC contractor and they will likely know of someone who has the equipment to do the job. It’s important to have your ducts cleaning every few years because the ducting can be a place where dust, dander, and other nasty pollutants can hide and be put into your home at a later time. Also, rodents and other living things can sometimes use ducting for passageways and nesting. Just removing the rodents is not enough. If they’ve been living in your ducting for some time then there are likely droppings that you will essentially be breathing in unless your ducts are cleaned. After the ducts are cleaned get a HEPA rated air filter or a filter with a MERV 16 rating to replace the filter that you currently have for your furnace. The HEPA rated air filter is the top-of-the-line when it comes to air filters and these will likely be pretty spendy on the cost spectrum of air filters for your furnace. If the HEPA air filter is out of your budget then look at other filters that have a MERV 16 rating. The MERV rating is used to categorize how well the filter traps particles in the air and the rating goes from 1 to 16, with 16 being the best. So, the higher the MERV number you get the smaller the particle your filter will be able to trap, and thus, the cleaner the air in your home will be.

Another danger inside the home that can cause poor air quality is mold. You might not think that mold is in your home but I think that you would be surprised if you did some investigative work. Mold as we all know is an outcome of damp places. These places can be anywhere there is water on a regular basis. The way to rid your home of mold is to eliminate any water sources like leaky sinks or fixtures. Even a sink that just on occasion is leaking water in the cabinet below can create mold issues. Check below your sinks like the one in the kitchen, bathroom, and laundry room. Look for any water marks below the sink. If there are water marks tighten the pipe fittings so that they stop dripping. If you can’t get the pipe fittings to stop dripping then call a plumber or handyman to help you out. Another place that I’ve found mold in the past is around the bottom of windows. In the winter condensation builds up and can accumulate at the bottom of windows. When this happens you need to be intentional about wiping up the moisture and making sure that mold isn’t growing. Bathrooms seem to be a good place for mold to grow because of the hot water during a bath and shower puts off steam. Make sure to properly ventilate your bathroom when someone is taking a hot shower. Poorly ventilated bathrooms are going to trap that moisture and mold will soon start to grow. If you do have a mold issue, then you clean it with bleach, hydrogen peroxide, or vinegar. There are tons of tips on the internet for more specific instructions on cleaning mold. However, I think the best way to clean mold is to never let it start growing in the first place.

One of the worst sources of air pollutants can come from the products and materials that you put into your home. For example, paints and sealer can off gas what’s known as VOCs. According to the EPA  VOCs (volatile organic compounds) may have several negative health effects such as: headaches, loss of coordination and nausea, and are known to cause cancer in humans. This is big deal! It is incredibly important to your health, the health of your family, and the health of those who enter your home that the air in your home is safe and VOC free. To reduce the potential of bringing VOCs into your home make sure that when you buy new paint that it is VOC free. Also, if you plan on refinishing floors or cabinets or trim work that the sealers and stain that you use are VOC free. Another source of VOCs is the carpet in your home. If you get new carpet in your home look into the low VOC or VOC free options. Many times carpet manufactures will offer a “Green Label” certified product. This means the carpet has been made in a way that minimizes VOCs.

In summary, I encourage you to research the indoor air quality of your home. Improving this could make a big difference in the level of health for you and your family. Keep in mind that some of the health issues caused by poor indoor air quality do not show symptoms right away. However, the damage being done to your body could have long-term affects. You can do a lot of different things that either do not cost money or are very inexpensive to make sure that your indoor air quality is the best that you can make it. Doing a simple internet search for improving indoor air quality will help you on your way to making sure you’re providing good indoor air for everyone in your home.

Pruning Your Life To Create Focus And Success

Hey guys! In this post I’m going to talk about pruning your life. This means cutting back the things that you don’t need to do so that you can put more focus on the things that will help you to reach your goals. I know that you’ve experienced this too, that point you realize you’re crazy busy with life and it doesn’t seem like you’re making the kind of progress on your goals that you want. When you hit this point it’s time to do some pruning. So, what does pruning mean and how is it going to help me?  This is the question that I will be answering in this post.

I grew up out in the country near acres and acres of apple, pear, and cherry trees and every winter work crews would work their way through each tree pruning off the excess growth. Someone might ask “Why would you want to prune branches that are going to bear perfectly good fruit”. The answer to this question in one word is: quality. If a fruit tree grows unpruned it’ll likely grow a tremendous amount of fruit, which might sound like a good thing, however, it isn’t, simply because the tree actually grows too much fruit. An apple tree for example is going to grow more apples than it has nutrients to grow into quality fruit. The fruit on the unpruned tree will be very small because there are so many pieces of fruit on the tree sharing the nutrients that the tree provides. So, by pruning back some of the tree it creates fewer places that fruit can grow. By doing this, the apples that do grow will have a higher amount of nutrients and will grow to become big, plump, beautiful apples.

In life it can be easy for many of us to find ourselves over committing, trying to do too many things, and not giving our goals the appropriate amount of time and resources required. After some amount of time goes by we look at our lack of progress with these goals and then wonder why we’re not getting anywhere. If this happens to you, it’s time to start doing some pruning. If you find yourself saying yes way too often and then becoming distracted from reaching your goals it’s time to start saying no. Saying no to one thing means that you get to say yes to something else. Therefore, saying no is a form of pruning.

When it comes to health, wealth, and happiness, pruning can help you to focus more time and resources on your goals in these areas. One of the biggest reasons I tell myself that I’m not going to the gym is because “I’m too busy”. As we all know, this is totally a bogus reason for not going. I need to be better at prioritizing my time and if you find yourself slacking in health, wealth, or happiness because you “don’t have the time”, then you need to do a better job at prioritizing too. When we prioritize we simply look at the things that are most important to us and we make sure that we’re paying the right amount of attention to these areas. For the area of happiness, are you spending enough time with your family and loved ones? If you’re not, I can tell you that you’re going to regret it when your relationships start to suffer. Are you spending the proper amount of time to budget and plan for building wealth? If you’re not, your going to realize down the road that you wish you would have done a better job at this. For your health, are you spending enough time in the gym and making healthy meals? Or are you skipping the gym and eating junk because you “don’t have time”? The only way you’re going to be successful is if you make time to be successful and you make your goals priorities. Do you want to be a great husband and a great father or a great wife and a great mother? Then you need to be intentional about dedicating time to this area of your life. Do you want to be a wealth builder? Then you need to be intentional about dedicating time to this area of your life. Do you want to live a healthy lifestyle? Then you need to be intentional about dedicating time to this area of your life. You don’t become successful in something by accident. You become successful by being intentional about your goals in that area of your life. You must give those goals the necessary time and resources to accomplish them.

There are other areas of your life that you can prune besides just areas that will give you more time. Sometimes people need to be pruned from your life. Is someone in your life dragging you down instead of building you up? Does this person create negativity in your life and slow you down from reaching your goals? If so, you may have to decide that this person doesn’t need to take anymore of your time and “unfriend” them. This sounds a little harsh and it doesn’t have to be that drastic. Simply deciding to spend less time around someone that brings you down and spend more time around someone that builds you up is all you need to do. But what if this person is close to you and you can’t escape them? If the person that is bringing you down is a coworker or family member that you can’t really unfriend you need to have a talk with them. Make some time to meet with this person one on one. Tell them that they’re negativity is dragging you down. I believe that communication is key in most situations. Some people might not even realize that they’re being negative and dragging you down and maybe a good chat will help them to realize what they’re doing. You could have a really positive effect on his or her life just by taking the time to help them realize the effects of their actions.

Another area of your life that you can prune is the area of habits. Do you have some bad habits that you need to rid yourself of? A while back I realized that I was drinking way too many sodas throughout the week and so I cut back to drinking just one or two a week. I really enjoy a nice cold soda but drinking too many isn’t good for you just like too much of just about anything isn’t good for you. When it comes to pruning bad habits in your life you must take a hard look at the things that you’re doing that you know you probably shouldn’t be. Are you drinking too much alcohol? Are you smoking? Are you eating ice cream just before you go to bed? Are you drinking caffeinated beverages late in the day or early evening? What is a habit that you know you need to prune out of your life?

Pruning can be difficult. It takes discipline and it takes courage. It takes strength to walk away from someone or something that is keeping you from reaching your goals. However, the fact is that pruning will help you to reach your goals and pruning will help you to build yourself into the person that you want to be.

Being Intentional About Unloading Stress

If you’re human then you’ve experienced stress. Stress can come from all sorts of different areas of life: from work, from home, and everything else that we find ourselves doing. We’ve all experienced it and sometimes too much stress can build up. On the other hand, I believe stress in a small amount can actually be a good thing. I think of when I feel challenged at work or when I’m working out at the gym there is a mild level of stress there. However, too much stress for too long can bog us down and depleted the happiness from our lives. From my experience when stress and burnout hit at the same time that’s when I feel the most defeated and this is obviously something that should be avoided.

We can’t always control the things that happen at work or in our personal lives and therefore stress is something that we’re going to encounter. The good thing is that we can control how we diffuse stress and if we do this we can avoid the negative impact from stress and use small healthy amounts of stress to our benefit as a way to keep us motivated and engaged in different areas of life.

Here’s 5 ways of letting go of stress.

One way to be intentional about reducing stress is making time for yourself. I know that you parents out there with young kids are saying “Yeah, right, time to myself, huh? What’s that?” But even just taking 15 minutes to have to yourself in the middle of a busy day can be extremely helpful. This could be some quiet time to read a book, mediate, or just sip some hot coffee on a Saturday morning. For me, I like my quiet time. I’m totally an introvert and being around a lot of people makes me feel stressed. After being around a lot of people I enjoy just being alone and having some quiet time to myself. The same is true for me at work. On my lunch break I enjoy finding a quiet place to be by myself. I have found that more and more when I’m driving by myself I turn the radio off and just drive in silence and focus on relaxing and letting go of the stress.

Another way to reduce stress is to hit the gym. There’s something about going to the gym and getting a good sweat on that feels good and helps reduce stress. I’ve read and heard from several people that exercising releases endorphins which are chemicals that are naturally produced by your body that help you to feel good. Also, exercising on a regular basis can increase your metabolism which can help you to feel like you have more energy to conquer the challenges that you face day to day. This will help you to feel ready to tackle the things that you would normally dread. Having a better attitude because you have more energy can help you to feel more confident and less stressed.

Another great way to relive stress is prayer. Sometimes we don’t always have someone to talk to about the stressful things that are going on in our life, or sometimes we don’t want to burden the ones that we do have to talk to with all of our own stresses. The great thing about prayer is God always has time to listen to us. He’s always there willing to take the burdens from our lives. Asking God to help you through that hurdle that you’re facing can help you to let go of the stress by realizing He is for you and with you every step of the way.

Eating right can help you deduce stress . When I’m stressed it’s easy to eat junk food as a quick treat that temporarily makes me feel good. I get a huge smile on my face when I think of stuffing my face with a bunch of glazed donuts. But junk food is only a temporary fix that has really bad side effects. Eating junk food is bad for our health and the longer-term effects are just going to make you feel sluggish. As I’ve learned in the past all those donuts might be tasty right when you eat them but the upset stomach and the energy crash they cause you will only bring you dissatisfaction. Also, drinking lots of water can help us to avoid dehydration. For me, a lack of water means that my mind isn’t as clear as when I’m fully hydrated and eating clean. Also, try to eat on a regular basis. We’ve often heard of the word “hangry” which is a combination of the word hungry and angry. Some of us get upset when we don’t eat and this can add to our level of stress.

The final tip for reducing stress is to get good sleep. We’ve all been sleep deprived at some point where it feels like we’re running on fumes, our body feels like it’s dragging, and our mind seems foggy at best. Sleep can make a huge difference on our energy levels and how we react to stress. To get a good nights rest try to go to bed and wake up at consistent times. For me, if I stay up way too late, like on a weekend night, it takes me at least a couple days to get back into my sleep rhythm. When I get out of my sleep rhythm, from either over sleeping or under sleeping, I start to feel sleepy and groggy and it’s hard to be productive when I feel this way. So, try to keep your sleeping times consistent. Also, avoid caffeine late in the day. I found that when I stopped drinking caffeine after 1pm I was getting better sleep and feeling more rested.

In summary, a little stress is good but too much stress can really take a toll on your life. Be intentional about reducing stress in your life if you want avoid hitting the “red zone”. Believe me, reducing stress in your life will bring more happiness to yourself and those around you. So remember, take some time for yourself, get some exercise, make some time for prayer, eat right, drink enough water, and get some good sleep. If you do these things you’ll be able to fire on all cylinders and tackle whatever the day throws your way.

Finding Your Why For Building Wealth

If you want to be a wealth builder you need to have a good “why” if you want to be able to sustain the path to building wealth. Your “why” is the reason that you want to build wealth. It answers the simple question: “Why do you want to build wealth?” You can have several whys or as little as just one. Your “why” is derived from your dreams so its important that you take a long look at your dreams and come up with reasons why you want to build wealth. Your dream could be anything: maybe to achieve financial independence, to save up for that new car, or to be able to travel the world someday without the worry of having income. Here are some additional examples of whys that’ll help you get an idea of what they can be. One why might be that you recently became a parent and now that you have a person to take care of you want more financial stability. Another might be that you want to save up and invest for a comfortable retirement. Or a “why” might be that a person wants to save up so they can buy his or her dream home. There are what seems like an endless amount of things that we can buy with our money and therefore there are also an endless amount of “whys” that we can have.

So, why is having a “why” important and what does it do for you? Your “why” answers the question on why your willing to save and invest now rather than spend your money on something else. Your “why” gives you the justification to say “No, I’m not spending this money now, because I have a greater purpose for this money in the future”. Your “why” gives your wealth building a purpose and gives you a reason for delayed gratification. Most people do not become wealthy because they can’t embrace delayed gratification. People want things now. That’s why so many people have gotten themselves in such terrible financial situations with consumer debt. In stead of saving up for a purchase and making sure priorities like retirement funds are coming first, they just go out and buy whatever they want whenever they want it. That’s great for retailers but it’s bad for a person’s financial health. When people go out and make too many reckless purchases they eventually start to buy things that they can’t afford. That’s when credit cards come into pay. I’m not saying that buying “stuff” is always bad. I buy “stuff” too. However, if you want to be a wealth builder you need to create a budget, make sure you’re contributing funds to your goals like retirement, and then once all of your priorities are taken care of, then you can buy the “stuff”.

Your “why” is your also a source of hope. It’s incredibly important to have hope when you’re trying to achieve any goal. Weather it’s a health, wealth, or happiness goal your “why” identifies your hope that will keep you motivated to keep on the wealth builder’s path. This helps to keep you from buying those things that you don’t really need.

Your “why” will also help you to determine how much wealth you need to amass. This is because your dreams, your goals, and your “whys” are all interrelated. We know that creating an intentional life starts with determining our dreams so that we can create goals and then a plan to reach those goals. The “why” is the fuel that we use to help us attain our dreams and work towards our goals using our plan. For example, if your “why” is that you want a new car then determining the price of the car will tell you how much you need to put away.

My friends, I would like to encourage you if you haven’t done so already, take some time to reflect on your dreams. Turn these dream into your own personal “whys” and use these “whys” to keep you on track to reach your goals. Think of all the people that your “whys” could benefit: your family, your friends, your community, and your church. Involve these people in your “whys” to make your “whys” that much more powerful.

Tips For Running

A lot of us enjoy running, I know that I certainly do, and I’ve done my fair share of it. I don’t do as much as I use to but I still love to get out and burn those calories and get the heart pumping. If you’ve been running for a while now or you’ve been thinking about trying running to get fit you might take into consideration these tips for avoid injuries and get the most out of running.

The first tip is to have a good pair of shoes. If you’ve been running for a while in the shoes that you have and they’re starting to lose the cushion it’s time to get a new pair. If you’re someone who is considering getting into running I highly recommend getting a good pair of running shoes instead of using the old sneakers that you have already laying around. Having good shoes is important for several reasons. First, your shoes absorb a lot of the shock from your foot striking the ground during each stride that you take. Your joints that would normally absorb this shock are your ankles, knees, hip, and back. To save yourself from discomfort later in life with these body parts pickup a good pair of shoes that will take some of the shock out of each step. From my point of view it’s a much less expensive to buy a good pair of shoes now and then it is to pay for medical costs to address the injuries you’ve obtained later from running. If you can afford it you might even consider buying two pairs of running shoes and rotating them. I’ve heard that when you run in a pair of shoes it can temporarily squish the padding down. Think of a wet sponge that you swish down and it slowly regains its shape. Running a long distance in a pair of shoes can swish down the padding and by rotating your shoes it can allow more time for your shoes to regain the full cushion. I haven’t scientifically tested this theory but it makes sense to me. For my running shoes I have a pair of trail running shoes and a regular pair of running shoes and I try to rotate the when I work out.

The second tip is to make sure to ease into running. If you’re new to running or if you’ve been thinking about getting back into running make sure to start slow and build up the mileage and difficulty levels over time. There have been a few times in my life where I was running on a regular basis and I felt really confident in my running abilities. It was easy during these times to go out and do pretty challenging running workouts. Having this capability gave me a confidence that can be a little dangerous. This is because, on the other hand, there have also been many times that I had not been running very much and my body was not in as good of shape. Whenever I get back into running, like when I decide to start training for an upcoming event, I have to remember to start back into it slowly in order to avoid injuries like pulling a muscle. If I try to try to jump back into doing the interval workouts that I was doing when I was in excellent shape after not running for a long period of time, I will expose myself to a higher level of possible injury. Doing too much running at a high difficult level too fast will get you injured. Ease into it and build up over time.

Another tip for avoiding injuries is to cross train. If you’re someone who is training to do a 5k or 10k or something even longer and you are just getting back into running or haven’t ever really been a runner before then cross training can help you to develop the repertory system and endurance without as much pounding that running alone inflicts on your joints. A couple of things that you can do to cross training are swimming and bike riding. A “brick” workout is where you combine a run and a bike ride. Doing this type of workout can help build your endurance but introduces more low impact exercising into your workout from the bike riding portion of the exercise. In the winter time I enjoy doing more of the stationary biking indoors. This way I can avoid cold temperatures but also avoid the icy roads and sidewalks that can present slipping hazards. Obviously different exercises use different muscles so the muscles that you use for running will not be as exercised as much when you do something like ride a bike, for example, however, I believe that the rest that you give your joints from cross training can help you to avoid injuries. You can also try the machines like the Elliptical, the stair stepper or the Versaclimber if you’re looking for a great exercise that avoids excessive impact to your joints.

The fourth tip involves the things that you eat and consume. Something else that you might try if you plan on getting into running is taking supplements. There are tons of supplements like multivitamins, fish oil, probiotics, and glucosamine based products that are available that can help you in different ways. From the research that I’ve seen there isn’t always documented proof that some of these supplements do what they are sold to do however if you can find room in your budget for some of these supplements I figure it can’t hurt. I’ve always been a firm believer in making sure that my body is getting the nutrients that it needs to perform and in my opinion it will get there when I give it quality supplements. In addition to supplements, eating clean will help you to give your body good fuel. When I eat junk food I tend to feel sluggish and the energy that I get doesn’t seem to be as lasting as when I eat healthy. Eating junk food seems to give me a short-term burst of energy but then I crash. I want something that’s going to help me to have an even amount of energy throughout the day. If you want an even level of energy throughout the day you might try moving to 5 medium meals per day in lieu of 3 large meals per day. While we’re on the subject of consumption make sure that you’re drinking plenty of water throughout the day as well. For me, if I don’t drink enough water, and I become start to become dehydrated, I feel sluggish and my mind just doesn’t work as well as it usually does. If I’m feeling sluggish, then I’m not going to be motivated to go running and workout.

Doing a warm up run followed with some stretching before your actual running workout can help loosen up your muscles. I’ve been in the habit of doing this ever since I started putting on the miles. My cross-country coach, Mr. Mattson had us warm up and stretch before every practice and I believe it helped the team avoid injuries. When I go running I’ll typically run about 800 meters at a nice-and-easy pace and then stretch. After I stretch I’ll start my actual running workout.

To recap: the first tip was to get a good pair of running shoes. The second tip is to ease into running, don’t jump into difficult running workout too fast. The third tip is to cross train when you can. Go for a bike ride or hit up a cardio machine at the gym. For the fourth tip take a look at the supplements available. Do you think any of these can help you? Also, try to eat clean. I know this is a tough one for me but it is really important if we want to feel good and perform at our highest level possible. And lastly, do a warm up run and some stretching before hitting your actual running workout.

Winning With Discipline

Here are some huge takeaway points as you read through this post or listen this podcast:

  • In what areas of your life do you need more self-discipline?
  • In the area of health, do you need to cut back on eating that junk food so you can reach your health goals?
  • For the area of wealth, maybe you need to create a budget or review the budget that you’ve already made in order to get on track to reach your financial goals.
  • Maybe for happiness you need a little more self-discipline when it comes to creating more happiness in the lives of others which will create more happiness in your own life.

Hey guys! This week I’m going to talk about a characteristic that people can have that will help them in health, wealth, and happiness. This is somewhat of a special post that I call Trifecta. What is a trifecta? One definition of trifecta from Dictionary.com says “Any achievement involving three successful outcomes”. In most of my blog posts and podcast episodes I focus on just one of the subjects, health, wealth, or happiness, but in the Trifecta posts and episodes I’m going to talk about what it takes to be successful in all three subjects.

This week’s trifecta characteristic is discipline, a.k.a. self-discipline. This is something that you need if you want to be successful at anything in your life. Yourdictionary.com defines self-discipline as “The ability you have to control and motivate yourself, stay on track and do what is right.” The key word that I like in this definition is “control”. You must have control over your life if you want to reach your goals. You’re probably thinking to yourself, “Of course I have control over myself. I’m the one who controls my own life and no one else.” And you would be right, we do have control over ourselves. But far too often we allow ourselves to get off track. For example, if I set a goal for hitting the gym at least three times a week and then after going only two times I decide that I rather go eat a cheeseburger and a milkshake in stead of working out that is a loss of self control and a lack of discipline. If you want to reach your goals you must learn to have a high level of discipline. This means that you do what you say you’re going to do even when there are other things out there tempting you.

So what does discipline look like when it’s applied to health? This would be staying true to your health and fitness goals. Like my prior example maybe you’ve set a goal for going to the gym on a regular basis or maybe you’ve set a goal to eat healthier. You need to make sure that you go to the gym as you planned or that you don’t eat a bunch of junk food so that you reach your “eating healthy” goal.

Ok, what does discipline look like when it’s applied to wealth? This could mean that you keep a budget of you monthly expenses and every other week or so you go back to that budget to review your progress and update different costs or amounts. Staying true to your wealth goals means not going out and making spontaneous purchases that are not in your budget. If you want to buy something that ok just fit it into your budget so that you can still reach your financial goals while also buying the things that you want. For example, there are always new things that I want to buy but I don’t just go out and buy them. First, when I find something that I absolutely want, I look at my budget first and see if I will have enough room in my budget to buy the item that I want. I make sure that I will have enough to cover all of my expenses, fund my retirement, and pay a tithe to my church, before I use my money to buy a “want”. Creating a budget is a must if you want to be intentional about building wealth and self-discipline is what you need to have if you want to stay on budget and reach your financial goals.

Finally, how does self-discipline relate to my happiness? At first glance you might say that self-discipline isn’t really related to happiness but when you take a closer look, you’ll realize that it is very related. I believe that if we want to be successful in any area of our life then we must be intentional about personal growth in that area. When we apply self-discipline to happiness we are intentional about creating happiness into the lives of others and our self. This means that we do not talk bad about someone unless it is to give someone constructive feedback that they can grow and learn from. It means that we’re intentional about complementing others in a genuine way. It means finding forgiveness when others have crossed us, even when they don’t deserve it. When we have self-discipline in the area of happiness we do these things and these things are going to be what brings more happiness into our life.

The thing that I want you to take away is that self-discipline is incredibly important if you want to be successful in the areas of health, wealth, and happiness. You can apply self-discipline to different areas of your life in order to be intentional about reaching your goals. In general, one of the key benefits of self-discipline is that it helps to keep us on track and doesn’t allow us to wander off the road that takes us to reaching our hopes and dreams.

5 Tips To Become Happier Today

Happiness is an area of our life that we don’t often spend much time being intentional about growing in but yet it’s one of the most important areas. It’s easy in life to get into a routine and before we know it another year has gone by. It’s almost like we become a robot just going through the motions of our day to day tasks and responsibilities. Life seems to be flashing by and we become complacent when it comes to being intentional about living a life filled full of happiness. When we’re not being intentional about growing in happiness we’re letting opportunities to live a happier, more fulfilling life just slip through our fingers. If we’re going to live a richer life, we need to seize the opportunities to create more happiness for those around us and ourselves. Often times we get caught up in the flow of life, where we wake up go to work, come home, spend a little time with the family, watch some Netflix then go to bed only to do it all over again. It’s like we’re on autopilot and we become numb to the real joys of life because we’re so focused on the next thing that we need to do. So, to help us be more intentional about growing in happiness I’ve created a list of a few happiness tips that will bring more happiness into your life and to the lives of those around you.

  1. The first happiness tip is to remember to stop and smell the roses. I totally understand, sometimes in life we get really busy and we’re just trying to get everything done. But sometimes all we need to do is slow down and just take in a moment and enjoy life. Maybe this moment means sitting close to your spouse, or taking a minute to call your friend that you haven’t talked to in a while, or taking a moment to enjoy a beautiful view of a sunset. These special little moments can be a lot of different things. So, next time one of these moments presents itself take a deep breath, relax, and enjoy it.
  1. The second happiness tip is to complement someone in a genuine way. I like getting complements and I also like giving complements. I bet that you’re the same way. So if we like giving and receiving complements then why is it that we don’t do more of it? Giving complements is a win-win activity. When you complement someone, you win because it makes you feel good that you made someone else feel good and it’s also a win for the other person because the complement makes them feel good too. Both people end up happier. Let’s do more of this!
  1. The third thing is to build someone up. Sometimes I call this talking someone up or lifting someone up. This is similar to a complement but it’s a little different in that its focus is to make the other person feel more capable and confident. In this case you tell someone that they’re good at something, you point out how they’re helping with the rest of the team, and/or you tell them how good of a job they’re doing. You can find lots of opportunities to do this at work. Don’t tell people they’re good at something unless they really are, otherwise you’ll start to lose credibility. The nice thing about this tip is that everyone is good at something so you should be able to find at least one point to make in order to build someone up. This one is a big one especially if you’re in some sort of leadership role such as a manager at your work, or if you’re the owner of a business, or you’re a parent. Any kind of leadership role requires that the leader instills confidence into their team. You need to have a team that is confident in their abilities if you, as the leader, want your team performing at the highest level possible.
  1. The fourth happiness tip is to forgive those who have done you wrong. This is probably the hardest for me because I tend to hold on to grudges. I have a friend who I really admire who is really good at letting go of grudges and forgiving those who have crossed him. When people have crossed him in the past he was mad about the situation in the moment, but he was able to quickly forgive. He has been someone who has been quick to let go of grudges and quick to forgive those who have done him wrong. This is how we need to live our lives. Holding on to grudges and stewing over past events only brings frustration and anger into our lives. That’s not what we want. That’s not how we live a rich life. Let go of the grudges, let go of the anger, and focus on forgiving.
  1. The next happiness tip is to make the most out of bad situations. When you’re given lemons make lemonade. I know, this is sometimes easier said than done. This requires creativity and a “can-do” attitude. Very few things seem to go exactly as planned so be ready to be proactive and resourceful. Be prepared to turn a bad situation into a good situation. Look for the silver lining in the situation and think of ways that you can benefit others or yourself with the given circumstances.
  1. Bonus tip: Count your blessings. We all have been blessed in one way or another and it’s important that when we’re striving to do more that we stop and be grateful for what we have and who we get to share it with. To help me with this I’ve actually taken the time to write down many of the things that I’m grateful for. I highly recommend this exercise because it forces you to count the things that make your life a little bit better. I like the idea of having blessing list or a blessing journal because it reinvigorates that feeling of gratitude which I believe creates more happiness in our lives.

Being intentional about happiness will bring more joy to yourself and those around you. I’ve often seen in life that when we bring happiness to others we bring happiness to ourselves at the same time. There’s just something that feels good about helping others feel good. I believe that we as humans are reciprocators. What I mean by this is when we’re nice to someone, most times, they’re nice back. When we bring happiness into the lives of others, most times, others will bring happiness into our life. Life is too short to not be happy. There are so many opportunities to bring happiness to others and ourselves we just need to be intentional about seizing those opportunities. So, go get some happy!

What Does Wealth Mean To You?

Hi friends. I’d like to start this post by asking you the question: what does wealth mean to you? I think wealth can mean different things to different people. For example, a person might look at being wealthy as having a well funded retirement plan. Another person might think of wealthy as less about money and more about having a rich life filled with friends and family. In any of these cases a person could be considered wealthy depending on what his or her definition of wealth looks like. According to dictionary.com one definition listed says that wealthy is “rich in character, quality, or amount”. So, what’s your definition of wealth and how are you going to get there? I believe building wealth is about making smart choices with your money. Becoming wealthy might be a far off thought to you but I’d like you to realize that it’s closer to reality for you than you might think. My definition of wealth means being financially independent and this is what I would like to focus on in this post.

So, what is financial independence? To me, this is the point that your investments are making you more money than your expenses and can sustain your financial needs for life. Let’s dig into this a little deeper. My definition of financial independence has two components. The first component is that on some sort of time basis your income from your investments are making you more than the expenses that you accrued on that same time basis. For example, let’s say that your expenses on a monthly basis amount to $3000. This means that your investments would need to make at least $3000 per month to essentially break even. If you were getting an average of 8% annual return on an investment this would mean that you would need an investment worth at least $450,000. The second component has to do with sustainability. This means that your investment have the ability to continue to pay for your expenses indefinitely. Ok, this is where my definition of financial independence gets a little more complicated. Your investment must not only cover your expenses on a time bases in the present time but must also have the ability to cover your expenses in the future as well. This means that you are taking into consideration growing expenses due to inflation or other reasons for increase in costs. In order for your investment to compensate for inflation and these other growing costs it must be growing as well. Let’s say that you have that $3000 per month expense and as we pointed out you would need $450,000 growing at 8% to cover that. Well, what if inflation is at 2% per year? This means that you need your investments to also grow at 2% in order to be able to cover that future increase in expense. In this case you either need to seek an investment that gets 10% annual return or you need to save up more in your investment so that your investment return is not only covering your current expenses but is also causing your investment balance to grow over time so that it covers your increased future expenses as well.

This all sounds great but saving up a bunch of money sound hard. The amount that I would need invested is a huge number and how do I even get that much? I agree, building an investment portfolio that creates enough return to cover your monthly expense is a sizable feat but if you want to become financially independent you must build a large investment. So, how do we start to build an investment that will allow us to become financially independent? In short, the answer is to put away as much money each month as you can. This answer, however, does not give us an estimate on how much we need to put away or how much we’ll have considering given conditions. There’s a lot of different ways to calculate how much wealth you’ll need to amass in order to hit your financial goals so let’s take a look at the basic steps of this calculation. The first step is to estimate how much your expenses are now and how much they will be in the future. To do this create a budget. I have used Microsoft’s Excel to create my budget and to help me with my financial independence calculations. If you haven’t created a budget yet I highly recommend using Excel. The next step is to estimate how much of an investment you’ll need at a given rate of return to cover your expenses. Next, estimate how much you’ll need to cover the growing amount of expense in the future. These calculations can be done using different techniques. If you’re not comfortable doing these calculations ask your financial adviser for assistance. There are also numerous online calculators and YouTube videos that can help you with this as well. Once you have an investment amount that you will need in order to achieve financial independence you can calculate how long it will take you to save that much money by using your budget.

Call to action:

  1. I’d like to encourage you to look at what being financially independent looks like in your life. Do this by calculating how much you would need to invest in order for that investment to cover your current monthly expenses.
  2. Now create a budget that will show you how much you can put away each month to get you to reaching the investment amount to be financially independent.
  3. Work like crazy to build up that investment portfolio!
  4. Enjoy being financially independent 🙂

Why Your Health And Fitness Goals Need To Be SMART Goals

When it comes to creating health and fitness goals too often we just say, “I need to get in shape” or “I need to lose some weight” but we don’t really identify in how good of shape or how much weight we need to lose. By applying the SMART goal criteria to our health and fitness goals we can give ourselves a tangible goal to hit and when we do this we will be more likely to see our goals accomplished.