In the summer of 2015 I went with my good friend Sam to cut fire wood. Being someone who grew up around plenty of apple wood I never had chopped firewood before because apple wood was small enough that it didn’t need to be split. After Sam fell an old dead tree, we got out the axes, and it was time to start splitting. I remember thinking to myself before I started how easy it was going to be, I mean, all you have to do is slam the axe into the wood right? Wrong. I chopped and chopped and chopped and I couldn’t get the wood to split. After about 16 swings and no success Sam stopped me and said “You’re doing it wrong”. At this point I was a little frustrated and I thought to myself, “How do you chop wood wrong? There’s only one way to do it.” Sam took the axe from me and as I curiously watched he brought the axe up over his head and slammed it down with every ounce of energy he had and sure enough the wood split. After watching Sam, it hit me, to split the wood you had to swing as hard as you could, and if you didn’t, then the wood wouldn’t split. Sure enough, when I put every ounce of energy into my swing, the firewood split. Later, I realized the same is true in life, if you want to be successful you have to give it everything you’ve got – every time – otherwise you’re just chopping at wood that will never split. Often in life we become complacent in our level of effort and then wonder why we’re not achieving our goals. If you’ve ever feel like you’re not getting where you want to be in life, maybe it’s time to look at your level of effort and choose to start swinging like Sam.
- Are you contributing enough energy towards your goals in order to achieve them?
- Do you need to cut out unnecessary things from your life in order to give you more time and energy to focus on your goals?
- Are you goals clear? Are they SMART goals: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-Based?
- Are you holding yourself accountable for reaching milestones that will help you reach your goals?
- Are your goals helping you to reach your dreams?