Using Small Actions Every Day to Win Big In Life with Jose Gonzalez

In this episode I had the pleasure of talking with my friend Jose Gonzalez about the book The Slight Edge, by Jeff Olson. In our conversation we discuss what the slight edge is and how you can use it to reach your goals. This is one of the most motivating books I’ve ever read. I’m so thankful that Jose shared this book with me. If you get a chance, I highly recommend reading this book. I know that it will inspire you just like it did for me.

Here are a few topics that we discuss:
1. What the slight edge is.
2. How it can reshape your life.
3. Why it’s important to make the slight edge a habit.
4. How attitude plays into the slight edge and to your overall success in life.
5. 3 steps to reach your dreams.

7 Positive, Productive Habits from Jeff Olson, The Slight Edge

What are some habits that you can adopt right now that will help you to achieve your goals in your life? This is what I’m going to be answering in this episode. I was recently reading the book The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson and came across 7 habits that Jeff says will “bear you up under any circumstance and support you on the path to your dreams.” I really liked these habits and I want to be intentional about incorporating these habits into my life. I think these habits are incredibly important to anyone who wants is striving to achieve their goals.

1. Show Up
The first habit is to show up. What this means is that you show up and take that first step. Nothing is going to get done if you never start it. This concept reminds of Wayne Gretzky’s quote “You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take.” In Jeff’s book he states that “By simply showing up you can rise above half of the population in any circumstance.” What he means by this is most people don’t even try. Most people just watch life pass them by on the sidelines. If you want to be someone of action, you need to get off the bench and into the game. And in order to do that you need to show up, be present, and take that first step towards the direction you want to head.

2. Be Consistent
The second habit is to be consistent. It doesn’t just end with showing up. You have to show up every day. You can’t show up just one time and expect that all of your goals are going to be accomplished with just one try. You have to keep showing up, keep pushing on, keep taking that step forward, even when it’s hard, even when the odds are against you, and even when it’s easy not to. In The Slight Edge, Jeff says “As essential as it is to show up, it is consistency that greatly multiplies its power. Showing up consistently is where the magic happens.” Of the few people in life that are actually willing to show up and start something, there are even fewer people that are willing to consistently pursue their goals until they accomplish them. Sometimes in life you get curve balls thrown at you and things change. That doesn’t mean that you have to change your goals, it just means that you have to change your plan for reaching your goals. Jeff goes on to say “If you will commit to showing up consistently, every day, no matter what, then you have already won well more than half the battle. The rest is up to skill, knowledge, drive, and execution.” So, show up and be consistent.

3. Have a Positive Outlook
The third habit is to have a positive outlook. If you want to reach your goals it’s incredibly important to have a positive outlook. Jeff says “approaching the events of everyday life with a consistently positive outlook moves you towards your goals.” Think about this for a second, imagine if you always had a negative outlook. Maybe you would say to yourself, “That’s not going to work, it never works out.” Do you really think anyone with this kind of attitude ever gets anywhere? I highly doubt it. Why? Because who wants to try something if they think they are just going to fail? Seeing yourself as failing all the time is a negative outlook. If you want to win, you have to have a winning outlook, a positive outlook. Sure, there’s going to be many times in life where things are difficult. We all face hard situations in life. If you’re not facing hard situation then you’re not really pushing yourself. When you’re encountering something difficult, try to look at the bright side. Train yourself to find the good in every situation, even if it’s a bad situation. What this will do is help you see the opportunities that will help drive you to success, even when the situation looks bad from the outside.

4. Be Committed For The Long Haul
The fourth habit is to be committed for the long haul. Jeff starts out talking about this habit by saying. “Showing up is essential. Showing up consistently is powerful. Showing up consistently with a positive outlook is even more powerful. But doing all that for a week, is just doing it for a week.” What he means by this is, if you want to get good at something, it takes time. That’s the bottom line. If you want to be good at your job, then it’s going to take you time in order to get good. If you want to get your body into shape, then it’s going to take time. If you want to train yourself to run a marathon, it’s going to take time. This reminds me of the old adage, “Good things happen to those who wait.” While you’re waiting you need to be working for it. So, let’s change the ol’ saying to “Good things happen to those who are committed for the long haul.” And it’s true. People eventually achieve what they set out to achieve if they work at it long enough.

5. Cultivate a Burning Desire Backed by Faith
The fifth habit is to cultivate a burning desire backed by faith. When pursuing goals you have to have something motivating you. That something creates a desire in to you pursue whatever it is that you want. Sometimes desires come and go but a burning desire is something much more intense. Jeff says that “That’s the kind of desire that gets you up early and keeps you up late. It’s what keeps you motivated to press forward when adversity hits. A desire like that can move mountains and alter the course of rivers.” If you’re serious about accomplishing something you need to have not just a desire, but a burning desire. When I’ve experience a burning desire to do something, there wasn’t much that would be able to slow me down. I was ready to stand up against anything that got in my way. The key to harnessing the burning desire is having a clear vision of what you want. Now, if you really want to succeed have a burning desire backed by faith. Jeff explains the faith aspect as “A burning desire backed by faith simply means deeply, passionately wanting to get somewhere and knowing -not hoping, not wishing, but knowing that you’re going to get there. In other words, there has to be congruence between your desire and your faith.” So, figure out what you want, set a goal to get there, create a plan to achieve it, believe in your heart that you’re going to achieve it, and light that desire up!

6. Be Willing to Pay The Price
The sixth habit is being willing to pay the price. We all know in the back of our minds that nothing is free and there is a cost of achieving your goals. There is always a cost, a cost for anything. When you make a decision, no matter what that decision is, there is a cost. Sometimes the cost is simply not doing the other thing that you could have done. There is also a cost for not doing something. For example, there is a cost for not eating healthy. The price you pay is feeling like garbage. Your body pays the price of poor eating habits by not functioning as good as it could with good eating habits. Sometimes in order to do big things you have to make big sacrifices. You might have to give up some of the most valuable things to you like time with friends or family. You might have to decide to get up early and work on your project in stead of staying up the night before watching movies. If you know that whatever you do is going to cost you something don’t you want to get the most out of what you pay? If you’re going to be spending 40 hours a week at a job, why not make it worth your while and do the best that you can? Why not spend that 40 hours accomplishing the most that you can and help you to be as successful as possible? In The Slight Edge Jeff make a good point, “Remember, there aren’t many millionaires who bowl over 100. Why not? Because they left the bowling league behind to build their fortunes.” What do you need to give up in your life right now to help you reach your goals? The junk food? The time sitting in front of the TV? The negative people in your life? The bigger the sacrifices you’re willing to make, the higher you can climb.

7. Practice Slight Edge Integrity
The final habit is to practice slight edge integrity. What does this mean? I’ll tell you! Jeff explains slight edge integrity being, “What you do when no one is watching”. In other words, are you working on your goals when no one else knows that you’re working on your goals? Are you going for that run like you had planned on doing? Are you being intentional about reading a good personal development book on a regular bases? Are you eating the types of foods that you planned on eating? More than likely no one else really knows if you’re sticking to your plan to reach your goals except you. Are you holding yourself accountable to working your plan? That’s what the slight edge integrity is. It’s about being intentional about doing those small things that are easy to do but also easy not to do every day that will help you take one more step towards vision.

The bottom line is we’re all capable of accomplishing great things. Creating good habits in your life will help you accomplish your goals! Jeff summarizes the habits this way, he says, “Show up. Show up consistently. Show up consistently with a positive outlook. Be prepared for and committed to the long haul. Cultivate a burning desire backed by faith. Be willing to pay the price. And do the things you’ve committed to doing – even when no one else is watching”

10 Ways to Reduce Stress

Hey guys! I’m here with more ways to reduce stress! A while back I did a podcast/blog post on relieving stress but I think it’s such an important topic that I’m back to give you more info. Stress is one of those things that we need to be intentional about managing. If we’re going to do our best work, we need to make sure that we are appropriately handling stress. Stress can build up in our lives and we need to be able to let go of it. The interesting thing about stress is that it can sneak up on us and, due to this sneakiness, I think it’s good to occasionally go through some of these stress relievers for good measure. Look, a little bit of stress can help motivate us to get work done and be productive. I know that sometimes I work best under pressure. The only thing is, I don’t want to be under pressure all the time. Too much stress is not good for our physical state, mental state, or our spiritual state. So, here we go, here are 10 ways to get rid of stress…

1. Take a break! It’s easy to get into go go go mode where you’re just always going. You kind of get into this “zone” where it’s all about getting the next thing on the checklist done. Slow down, and give yourself a break.

2. Make time to finish up those projects that you’ve started that keep weighing on you. I recently took a week off of my normal day job to simply get projects done around the house. If felt so good to get these things done!

3. Organize your space. No one likes working in a mess. Clean up the space around you and I can tell you that you will feel a lot better working in a clean and organized space.

4. Talk to someone about issues that are going on in your life. Some employers offer free counseling which might be what you need. Maybe you have a friend that is willing to listen. Maybe your spouse can help you. Maybe look to a person at your church for a good conversation. Maybe become part of a self help group that meets on a regular basis.

5. Exercise. There’s something about hitting the gym that just makes me feel so much better after a stressful day. I’m sure there’s science behind it, like the release of endorphins into the body, but for me, it really just helps me to let go of the stress that I’ve been holding onto all day.

6. Get a good night’s rest. This shouldn’t just be a once-in-a-while thing. This should be happening on a regular basis. For me, the thing that helps me get a good night’s rest is when I’m consistently waking up at the same time and going to sleep at the same time. Find a rhythm that works for you.

7. Take up healthy eating habits. You might ask yourself, what does eating have to do with stress? From personal experience, when I make poor eating choices I feel sluggish and tired because I have fed myself junk. This causes low levels of energy which in turn creates a feeling of unproductiveness which only adds to the stress.

8. Play disk golf! Woooohooooo! Ok, you don’t necessarily need to play disk golf but get out side and do something outdoors that you enjoy. Listen to the birds, feel the breeze, feel the warm sun on your face… There’s something about doing outside stuff that is relaxing for me and it helps me to relieve stress.

9. Coloring. I recently received a coloring book from a person that I work with. Yes, a coloring book. At first it made me chuckle to myself thinking that full grown adults would be coloring in a coloring book, but then I remembered how relaxing it was for me in my younger years when I would draw. Coloring and drawing are similar in many ways, they both allow a person to express themself and there’s something special that happens when people get to do art. I realize that coloring might not be classified as “art” but I think creating art and coloring have enough of the same components to be similar. Both of these things can create a sense of relaxation and can relive stress.

10. Do some meditation. Get into a quiet space. Maybe put some quiet, relaxing music on. Take some deep breaths and focus on relaxing.

I hope these tips are helpful! Keep being awesome and go kick some butt!

Achieving Maximum Performance with Dary Reed

Dary Reed is a Personal Effectiveness Coach and the founder of Assets LLC. His goal is “to help individuals operate in a culture of high performance by teaching intrinsic behavioral skills that direct ones path to elevated levels of success.” Dary shared a tremendous amount of success wisdom with me and I felt very fortunate to have him on the show. If you’re someone who wants to achieve your maximum performance in whatever you’re doing, this podcast episode is for you!

Here are just a few of the nuggets of wisdom that Dary shares:

  • “Once you can say that ‘failure is my leverage for effectiveness’ and truly believe that in your heart, then failure doesn’t frighten you anymore.”
  • “When I learn to be comfortable with being uncomfortable, when I embrace the suck, however you want to phrase it, you know, that’s really where I learn and where I grow.”
  • “Everything of high level quality is practiced, drilled, and rehearsed, which is discipline”
  • “Discipline establishes patterns and patterns establish effectiveness. You can’t have random effectiveness.”
  • “You don’t learn on the mountain tops, you learn down in the valleys.”

Dary’s words of wisdom in this podcast will help you:

  • Learn how fear destroys our success and how to overcome it.
  • Learn the importance of discipline while achieving success in your life.
  • Embrace the tough parts of your life as a way to learn, grow, and become better than you were yesterday.
  • Become a better leader both in business and in life.
  • Learn how to achieve on a whole new level.

Dary’s Contact Information: 

Decluttering Your Life

  1. There are several benefits of decluttering such as reducing clutter stress, being more productive, having more time to do what we want, and keeping more of your money.
  2. Prioritize the things you need to declutter. Start with the most important areas of your life.
  3. Get rid the things you don’t use or won’t use often. Organize the things that you want to keep.
  4. Make thoughtful purchases in the future. Don’t allow yourself to re-clutter your life!

Hey guys! What are the benefits of decluttering your life? What does decluttering look like and how do we do it? These are the questions that I am going to answer in this blog post.

We live a very blessed life. We have access to so many things and sometimes we fill our lives with too many of these things. Every once in a while we need to stop and assess the stuff that we’ve allowed in our lives and see what we can take out in order to make more room for things that matter. This means that sometimes in life, less is more. The less we fill our lives with junk the more time, money, and better health we’ll have. When we have more time, money, and better health we can focus more on doing the things that we really want to do and the things that will help us to reach our goals. Decluttering can be thought of as a type of investing. The time we invest into decluttering is going to be rewarded by the many benefits that decluttering offers. Also, by being intentional about avoiding clutter we can avoid the negative side effects that clutter has on our lives.

I can think of at least 3 main areas of life that we can declutter: things, time, and finances. Let’s take a look at how decluttering can be beneficial in these different areas.

Benefits of decluttering:

  1. Decluttering gives you more space and less stress. When I have a cluttered space the clutter makes the space feel cramped. I’m not someone who is claustrophobic but I would definitely say that I much rather be in a room that is clean and organized than a room that is jam packed full of stuff. A room full of stuff (like the current condition of my messy basement) makes me feel uncomfortable and adds more stress to my life. Decluttering can make you feel less stressed. Recently I walked into my garage that I’m moving into and I have tools that need to be cleaned, boxes of stuff that needs to be organized, shelves stacked with things that need to be organized, and I tell you what, I didn’t even know where to start. I asked myself, “Should I start cleaning tools, organizing shelves, or do one of the other millions things with all of this stuff?” I felt a little overwhelmed by all the stuff and it was easy to see that all this stuff was adding to my stress.
  2. Another benefit is that decluttering can help you to be more productive which ultimately can save you time. Think of a workstation area, maybe at work, maybe in your garage, maybe in a craft room, or maybe in your home office. If your work space is clean and organized than it’s going to be easier to find things and to get things done. This is going to make you much more productive.
  3. Having less stuff saves you money. When you spend less money buying stuff that you don’t need you have more money to put towards your goals like saving for retirement, your child’s education, or your down payment on your next home. Also, by not having as much stuff you’re not going to spend as much money maintaining things. The fact is that owning stuff costs money. Is that something that you thought of when you purchased the last big tick item? If you’re like me, probably not. I was just focused on how bad I wanted it. So, keep that in mind the next time you’re on the fence about buying something. Is it something that you’re willing to pay to maintain and store?

The benefits from decluttering go on and on. We can clearly see through these examples that decluttering has obvious benefits. The next question I want to answer is “How do we be intentional about decluttering and make sure that we’re not cluttering our lives even more in the future?”

Prioritize: The first step to decluttering is to prioritize. It’s impossible to declutter every aspect of your life all at the same time so you need to prioritize the areas that are going to make the most impact and benefit you the most. In the area of things, what things in your life need the most attention? Has your cluttered garage been weighing on you? Do you really need to clean your home office so you can be more productive which will allow you to spend more time with the family? What priorities do you have in the area of finances? Do you have a credit card that you don’t use but is still open? What things can you declutter that will give you more time to do the things you want?

Organize: The second step to decluttering is organizing. Organizing is the nemesis of clutter. The more organized you are the less effect clutter is going to have on you.

The first step of organizing in any aspect of your life is to get rid of the stuff that you’re not using. If you have a bunch of stuff that you don’t even use anymore then it’s time to get rid of it. In regards to your finances, do you have a reoccurring charge for a membership that you’re not using anymore? Then it’s time to get rid of it. Are you spending time doing something that doesn’t bring you or your family happiness that you can stop doing? It’s time to get rid of it. Eliminate anything and everything you can. Sell it, give it away, recycle it, or throw it in the garbage. It’s time to clean up and declutter your life. Let’s look at what organizing looks like in different aspects of your life.

Organizing your stuff: After you’ve rid yourself of the stuff that you don’t use anymore its time to organize what’s left. Make the things you use most often the easiest to access. Store the things that you don’t use often somewhere out of the way. The idea is to keep your space clean but at the same time you want your stuff easy to find when you need it. Get the family involved when you can so that everyone knows where stuff is and so that everyone has time spent keeping the house clean and organized. That way they’ll appreciate it more.

Organizing your time: Decluttering your time can be difficult. If you’re like me you sometimes probably feel like you say yes to way too many things and before you know it, you feel too busy to do anything. That seems silly to say but that’s the way it feels at times. I’ve heard it said that you shouldn’t do more than 3 big things at a time outside of your family time. This means, for example, that if you work full time that would be one, if you also volunteer throughout the week that would be two, if you have a big project a home that you’re working on that would be three. Life will be filled full of the little things but when it comes to the big stuff don’t overextend yourself.

Organizing your wealth: This is where it actually pays to be organized. Have a garage sale to turn that stuff into cash. A garage sale or selling your stuff on Craigslist can be a great way to both declutter and put more money in your bank account. Garage sales can be a painful but a good learning experience which is that stuff usually goes down in value. Like, way down. Buying a bunch of stuff is going to get you nowhere but broke. Another way to organize your wealth is to use autopay if you can. For example, using autopay to pay your electric bill, or your internet bill, or your mortgage can save you time each month.  Also, I recommend setting up auto-contributions to your investment accounts. The less time I have to spend keeping up on my finances the better in my mind and using some autopay and auto-contribute features is one way I can make sure I’m reaching my wealth building goals. Another money saving anti-clutter technique is to rent instead of buy. For example, if you need a specific tool for a home project consider renting it or borrowing it from a friend in lieu of buying it. This could save you a lot of money. For more peace of mind and to reduce the risk of financial fraud you should considering closing bank and credit accounts that you don’t use anymore. If you have several checking accounts or savings accounts I recommend consolidating them. I have only one checking account and one savings account. These two accounts are the only bank accounts that I have open for myself. I have seen people that have checking accounts at 3 different banks. This is absurd to me and I have no idea how they keep all of their accounts straight.

Minimize: The final step to decluttering is to minimize the stuff that you put in your life by being very selective about what you allow in your life. To help you avoid re-cluttering your life be intentional about not allowing more unnecessary stuff in your life. When you’re surfing Amazon next time, before you hit the “Add to Cart” button, ask yourself, “Do I really need this?” You probably don’t. Remember, a dollar saved is a dollar earned. The more you save now from not buying junk allows you to keep more of your money and reach your financial goals faster.

Winning by Creating a Success Schedule

The Success Schedule helps you win by design. It will help you to: 

  1. Keep on track to reach your goals.
  2. Break down your big goals to small actionable weekly, monthly, and yearly goals.
  3. Be intentional about making choices that will help you reach success.

You’re probably asking yourself right now, “What the heck is a success schedule?” In short, it’s a tool that helps you achieve your short-term and long-term goals. You’ve heard me time and time again say that you need to create goals if you want to reach your dreams, right? A success schedule is part of the goal creating and achieving process. It’s a one page document that lists your goals and action items out on a yearly, monthly, and weekly basis. But before we jump into more about success schedules let’s do a little review on goals. When creating goals the first thing you need to do is figure out what exactly you want to accomplish. Maybe you want to start putting away money for retirement or start a small remodel project at home. The thing that you want to accomplish can be anything. It can be something big like saving up for a down payment for a house or it could be something small like cleaning out the garage. So, what is your goal? Obviously in life you have a lot of goals. You have them for your work life, you have them for your home life, and you might even have goals that are not really a tangible thing, like maybe it’s finding more happiness by being a better person. The goal is the answer to “How do I get what I want?” It’s what you want to accomplish so you reach your dreams. Ok, we get, the goal is like a race with a finish line. But how do know where to go in order to get to the finish line? We get there by creating a road map, a game plan. In other words, we accomplish our goal by creating a step by step process. This process is where the success schedule comes in.

Once you’ve identified your goal and you’ve identified the steps that it’s going to take to get there, then it’s time to create your success schedule. This schedule is going to list the things that you need to do on a weekly, a monthly, and a yearly basis so that you know what you need to do in order to reach your goal. For me a weekly schedule works great because I tend to plan for my week on the weekends and it helps me to stay on track throughout the week. I’ve created a success schedule template that you can download for free on my website buildwithkeegan.com under the “Success Tools” page. You can use this success schedule as it is by simply filling in your goal information, you can use it as a model in order to create your own success schedule, or you can modify this success schedule to be customized to your goals. One thing to take into consideration is that you can create several success schedules for different goals or you can use one success schedule that lists several of your goals. So, let’s look at an example of what you might put on your success schedule. (As a side note, to help you follow along with this example, you might take a look at the success schedule template that I’ve put on my website.) In the yearly section of the success schedule I’m going to put an item for retirement because I want to be intentional about putting away money for retirement. For this yearly retirement goal I’m going to put a dollar figure amount so that my goal is a SMART goal. A SMART goal is one that is specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and time-based. So, I’m going to type in the yearly section of my success schedule “Retirement goal: contribute $5,500 to Roth IRA”. For me, I contribute to my retirement once a month, so in the “Monthly” section I’m going to also write in “Retirement goal: contribute $460 to Roth IRA”. In this example I wouldn’t have a weekly goal since I contribute to my retirement monthly but if you contribute to your retirement weekly you could add a line in your weekly schedule that says something like “Retirement goal: contribute $115 to Roth IRA”. You see, the schedule breaks down my big goal of saving for retirement into yearly, monthly, and weekly goals. The nice thing about the calendar is that it tells you what you need to do, how much you need to do it, and it keeps your eye on your goals so that they are in the forefront of your mind. Reminding yourself of your goals can be a big deal because it’s easy to get really busy in life and loose sight of why we’re working so hard.

So, I would like to encourage you to create a success schedule of your own filled full of all your weekly, monthly, and yearly actions to reach your goals. Like I mentioned you can download a success schedule for free on my website, buildwithkeegan.com in the “Success Tools” page. Make your success schedule fun! Use different font colors and put pictures of things that represent your goals around the border. It doesn’t have to be structured exactly like mine but it should allow you to see what you need to do this week, this month, and this year in order to accomplish your goals. I put my success schedule on the wall just above my computer so that way every time I sit down at my desk I’m reminded of what my goals are and what I need to do in order to accomplish them.

The Importance of Rest

Have you ever felt like life was just go-go-go all the time and you didn’t have any time to just rest? I’ll be the first to admit that I’ve been in that boat before to the point that I just felt burned out. When you hit this burnout mark it should be a wake-up call to you that you haven’t been getting enough rest. It’s easy to keep putting more and more stuff in our lives and it can sometimes be difficult to get the amount of rest you need. Rest can come in different forms and can be applied to different areas of your life. You can have rest for your body which can help you to recuperate energy. You can have rest when it comes to building wealth which can help motivate you to continue to save and invest. You can even have rest for your mind which can help you to be in a better mood, reduce stress, and help you to feel happier.

Rest for our body is probably the first type of rest people think of when they hear someone say the word “rest”. We tend to think of going to bed for the night or kicking back in the easy chair for a catnap. This type of rest is really important for our body to recover from the energy it exerted throughout the day and to help us regain energy to use the next day. Many times when we get really busy this type of rest is one of the things that gets cut back in order to squeeze a few more activities in the 24 hours that we have. We often tell ourselves “I can just wake up a little earlier to get that thing done” or “I can just work on it tonight and go to be a little later”. When we cut back on our sleep in order to be more productive we might be getting a little more work done in the short-term but in the long-term we’re actually hurting ourselves. I’ve seen time and time again in my life and in the lives of those around me that not getting enough sleep means we’re more susceptible to getting sick. When we get sick it dramatically slows down our productivity and can erase what we gained when we were working hard while sleep deprived. Getting consistent sleep and resting our body is very important if you want to keep good health, avoid getting sick, and feel like you have the energy it takes to take on your day.

Rest from wealth building is, I’m sure, much less thought of than rest for your body. I know you probably have an eyebrow raised when I say rest from wealth building. What I mean by this is simply being able to take a break and rest from being focused on building wealth by saving up and buying something special for yourself or for you and your spouse or for your whole family. For me, I tell myself pretty often that I’m not going to buy something because it’s more important to me to save and invest so that I can have recourses to buy things later in my life. I know that by saving and investing now rather than spending all of my money will help me get to my goal of becoming financially independent. This goal is really important to me and it’s more important to me than being able to buy that next gadget or gizmo that catches my eye. However, on the other hand, it is really nice to occasionally treat myself to something special as a reward for working so hard and for doing a good job of saving and investing my money. This treat might be taking my significant other out to dinner or buying something that I really wanted for some time. Buying this treat is usually something small that won’t break the bank. In other words, resting from wealth building means being able to spend a little to make sure you remember why you’re working so hard to save.

Rest also helps us to be happier. When we sleep we rest our whole body including our mind but there’s another kind of rest where we rest in order to rest our mind. Examples of this kind of rest would be when we get to have some time just to ourselves to read a good book or sip some coffee in the morning. It could be when we get to do a hobby that we enjoy or it might mean taking the family out to the local park to enjoy a nice relaxing day having fun. Mental rest is attained when we can free ourselves from the stress that we regularly subject ourselves to. When I fill my life with too many activities I start to feel overly stressed and when I get to this point it’s a reminder to me that I need to be more intentional about creating mental rest. Sometimes when I’m really stressed I enjoy just taking about 15 minutes or so just to close my eyes, try to relax my brain, and clear out all my thoughts in order to enjoy just some silence. This, for me, helps my mind to not get overloaded and stressed out. This sounds obvious but when I’m not stressed out I’m more likely to be much happier. Therefore, if we can use rest to minimize the negative impact of stress we can become happier.

Overall rest is an exceedingly important aspect of being successful in health, wealth, and happiness. However, it’s also something that is often overlooked and not taken seriously. If you want to be all that you can make sure that you’re taking the proper time to get adequate rest.

Increasing Prosperity And Happiness Through Gratitude

Before reading this post or listening to this podcast ask yourself the following personal growth questions: Have you been intentional about being grateful lately? What are the things that you’re most grateful for? How can you make a positive impact in the lives of others by showing that you’re grateful for them what they do?

It seems like every so often in life we get caught up in the daily grind and we forget to take a moment to appreciate everything that we have. If you want to create more happiness in not only your life but also in the lives of those around you and at the same time create more prosperity then you need to be intentional about being grateful. Often times, we’re quick to focus on the negative more so than focusing on the positive, and this is one of the reasons that I believe it’s important to be intentional about having gratitude.

Focusing on positive things helps us to create more happiness. It drowns out the negative thoughts that sometimes seem to pillage our minds. When I get busy and I’m not taking time to simply contemplate the good things that I have in my life I find that negativity seeps into my world. Being grateful for blessings is one of the best ways to stop negativity in its tracks. Getting in the habit of being grateful can help us sustain happiness and when we create happiness in our own life it spreads, through our actions, to others around us. When we’re grateful and we outwardly express it to those around us it communicates to others that we are grateful for them, and thus, brings happiness to those around us. In the business world, when a managers or team leader is outwardly expresses gratitude for his or her team it creates more productivity and more effectiveness.

If you want prosperity in your life then I highly recommend winning with gratitude. Being grateful for the things in your life can help you to see what your strengths are which can help you to better identify opportunities that come up. Seeing and acting on opportunities that help you reach your goals is how you create success in life. A negative person who is always focused on the bad is not going to see the opportunities that will help them to achieve success. However, a person who can see their own strengths can identify ways that they can use their strengths to bless others. You will find that by bringing value to the lives of others you will bring value to your own life.

A good attitude helps people become successful and gratitude helps support a good attitude. Attitude can be everything when it comes to success in the business world. Have you ever been helped by someone with a poor attitude? I have, and I tell you what, I dread going to businesses where the people there have poor attitudes. Your attitude can make or break your career. I’ve seen very competent people not receive a promotion simply because they had a poor attitude. I’ve also seen people who had a great attitude get hired over others who were more highly qualified simply because they had great attitude. I’m telling you, if you want a successful career or a successful business, have a great attitude.

If you’re currently bogged down with problems and you feel like negativity has you down remember that there’s someone else out there that would love to have your problems because their problems are much worse than yours. If you’re unhappy with your job then remember there’s someone who would love to have the job that you have. If you’re not happy with the home that you live in, remember, there’s someone out there that would love to have the home that you live in. You get the idea. Be thankful. Don’t let dissatisfaction bring negativity into your life and always have a heart of gratitude.

Pruning Your Life To Create Focus And Success

Hey guys! In this post I’m going to talk about pruning your life. This means cutting back the things that you don’t need to do so that you can put more focus on the things that will help you to reach your goals. I know that you’ve experienced this too, that point you realize you’re crazy busy with life and it doesn’t seem like you’re making the kind of progress on your goals that you want. When you hit this point it’s time to do some pruning. So, what does pruning mean and how is it going to help me?  This is the question that I will be answering in this post.

I grew up out in the country near acres and acres of apple, pear, and cherry trees and every winter work crews would work their way through each tree pruning off the excess growth. Someone might ask “Why would you want to prune branches that are going to bear perfectly good fruit”. The answer to this question in one word is: quality. If a fruit tree grows unpruned it’ll likely grow a tremendous amount of fruit, which might sound like a good thing, however, it isn’t, simply because the tree actually grows too much fruit. An apple tree for example is going to grow more apples than it has nutrients to grow into quality fruit. The fruit on the unpruned tree will be very small because there are so many pieces of fruit on the tree sharing the nutrients that the tree provides. So, by pruning back some of the tree it creates fewer places that fruit can grow. By doing this, the apples that do grow will have a higher amount of nutrients and will grow to become big, plump, beautiful apples.

In life it can be easy for many of us to find ourselves over committing, trying to do too many things, and not giving our goals the appropriate amount of time and resources required. After some amount of time goes by we look at our lack of progress with these goals and then wonder why we’re not getting anywhere. If this happens to you, it’s time to start doing some pruning. If you find yourself saying yes way too often and then becoming distracted from reaching your goals it’s time to start saying no. Saying no to one thing means that you get to say yes to something else. Therefore, saying no is a form of pruning.

When it comes to health, wealth, and happiness, pruning can help you to focus more time and resources on your goals in these areas. One of the biggest reasons I tell myself that I’m not going to the gym is because “I’m too busy”. As we all know, this is totally a bogus reason for not going. I need to be better at prioritizing my time and if you find yourself slacking in health, wealth, or happiness because you “don’t have the time”, then you need to do a better job at prioritizing too. When we prioritize we simply look at the things that are most important to us and we make sure that we’re paying the right amount of attention to these areas. For the area of happiness, are you spending enough time with your family and loved ones? If you’re not, I can tell you that you’re going to regret it when your relationships start to suffer. Are you spending the proper amount of time to budget and plan for building wealth? If you’re not, your going to realize down the road that you wish you would have done a better job at this. For your health, are you spending enough time in the gym and making healthy meals? Or are you skipping the gym and eating junk because you “don’t have time”? The only way you’re going to be successful is if you make time to be successful and you make your goals priorities. Do you want to be a great husband and a great father or a great wife and a great mother? Then you need to be intentional about dedicating time to this area of your life. Do you want to be a wealth builder? Then you need to be intentional about dedicating time to this area of your life. Do you want to live a healthy lifestyle? Then you need to be intentional about dedicating time to this area of your life. You don’t become successful in something by accident. You become successful by being intentional about your goals in that area of your life. You must give those goals the necessary time and resources to accomplish them.

There are other areas of your life that you can prune besides just areas that will give you more time. Sometimes people need to be pruned from your life. Is someone in your life dragging you down instead of building you up? Does this person create negativity in your life and slow you down from reaching your goals? If so, you may have to decide that this person doesn’t need to take anymore of your time and “unfriend” them. This sounds a little harsh and it doesn’t have to be that drastic. Simply deciding to spend less time around someone that brings you down and spend more time around someone that builds you up is all you need to do. But what if this person is close to you and you can’t escape them? If the person that is bringing you down is a coworker or family member that you can’t really unfriend you need to have a talk with them. Make some time to meet with this person one on one. Tell them that they’re negativity is dragging you down. I believe that communication is key in most situations. Some people might not even realize that they’re being negative and dragging you down and maybe a good chat will help them to realize what they’re doing. You could have a really positive effect on his or her life just by taking the time to help them realize the effects of their actions.

Another area of your life that you can prune is the area of habits. Do you have some bad habits that you need to rid yourself of? A while back I realized that I was drinking way too many sodas throughout the week and so I cut back to drinking just one or two a week. I really enjoy a nice cold soda but drinking too many isn’t good for you just like too much of just about anything isn’t good for you. When it comes to pruning bad habits in your life you must take a hard look at the things that you’re doing that you know you probably shouldn’t be. Are you drinking too much alcohol? Are you smoking? Are you eating ice cream just before you go to bed? Are you drinking caffeinated beverages late in the day or early evening? What is a habit that you know you need to prune out of your life?

Pruning can be difficult. It takes discipline and it takes courage. It takes strength to walk away from someone or something that is keeping you from reaching your goals. However, the fact is that pruning will help you to reach your goals and pruning will help you to build yourself into the person that you want to be.

Winning With Discipline

Here are some huge takeaway points as you read through this post or listen this podcast:

  • In what areas of your life do you need more self-discipline?
  • In the area of health, do you need to cut back on eating that junk food so you can reach your health goals?
  • For the area of wealth, maybe you need to create a budget or review the budget that you’ve already made in order to get on track to reach your financial goals.
  • Maybe for happiness you need a little more self-discipline when it comes to creating more happiness in the lives of others which will create more happiness in your own life.

Hey guys! This week I’m going to talk about a characteristic that people can have that will help them in health, wealth, and happiness. This is somewhat of a special post that I call Trifecta. What is a trifecta? One definition of trifecta from Dictionary.com says “Any achievement involving three successful outcomes”. In most of my blog posts and podcast episodes I focus on just one of the subjects, health, wealth, or happiness, but in the Trifecta posts and episodes I’m going to talk about what it takes to be successful in all three subjects.

This week’s trifecta characteristic is discipline, a.k.a. self-discipline. This is something that you need if you want to be successful at anything in your life. Yourdictionary.com defines self-discipline as “The ability you have to control and motivate yourself, stay on track and do what is right.” The key word that I like in this definition is “control”. You must have control over your life if you want to reach your goals. You’re probably thinking to yourself, “Of course I have control over myself. I’m the one who controls my own life and no one else.” And you would be right, we do have control over ourselves. But far too often we allow ourselves to get off track. For example, if I set a goal for hitting the gym at least three times a week and then after going only two times I decide that I rather go eat a cheeseburger and a milkshake in stead of working out that is a loss of self control and a lack of discipline. If you want to reach your goals you must learn to have a high level of discipline. This means that you do what you say you’re going to do even when there are other things out there tempting you.

So what does discipline look like when it’s applied to health? This would be staying true to your health and fitness goals. Like my prior example maybe you’ve set a goal for going to the gym on a regular basis or maybe you’ve set a goal to eat healthier. You need to make sure that you go to the gym as you planned or that you don’t eat a bunch of junk food so that you reach your “eating healthy” goal.

Ok, what does discipline look like when it’s applied to wealth? This could mean that you keep a budget of you monthly expenses and every other week or so you go back to that budget to review your progress and update different costs or amounts. Staying true to your wealth goals means not going out and making spontaneous purchases that are not in your budget. If you want to buy something that ok just fit it into your budget so that you can still reach your financial goals while also buying the things that you want. For example, there are always new things that I want to buy but I don’t just go out and buy them. First, when I find something that I absolutely want, I look at my budget first and see if I will have enough room in my budget to buy the item that I want. I make sure that I will have enough to cover all of my expenses, fund my retirement, and pay a tithe to my church, before I use my money to buy a “want”. Creating a budget is a must if you want to be intentional about building wealth and self-discipline is what you need to have if you want to stay on budget and reach your financial goals.

Finally, how does self-discipline relate to my happiness? At first glance you might say that self-discipline isn’t really related to happiness but when you take a closer look, you’ll realize that it is very related. I believe that if we want to be successful in any area of our life then we must be intentional about personal growth in that area. When we apply self-discipline to happiness we are intentional about creating happiness into the lives of others and our self. This means that we do not talk bad about someone unless it is to give someone constructive feedback that they can grow and learn from. It means that we’re intentional about complementing others in a genuine way. It means finding forgiveness when others have crossed us, even when they don’t deserve it. When we have self-discipline in the area of happiness we do these things and these things are going to be what brings more happiness into our life.

The thing that I want you to take away is that self-discipline is incredibly important if you want to be successful in the areas of health, wealth, and happiness. You can apply self-discipline to different areas of your life in order to be intentional about reaching your goals. In general, one of the key benefits of self-discipline is that it helps to keep us on track and doesn’t allow us to wander off the road that takes us to reaching our hopes and dreams.